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Dirty Talking Is My Thing – Are You In?

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What is Dirty Talk?

Sex play involving sensual/ sexual phrasing in order to drive one’s partner or oneself wild through words and imagination to heighten sexual pleasure before and during sex, expressing wants and needs in the heat of the moment. Here are some good “dirty talking” tips for HOT phone sex action:

Start Slow

· Don’t feel pressured to rush into things.
¡ A great way to start is by describing out loud what is happening to your body when aroused or what you would like the PSO (Phone Sex Operator) to do to you if she were there.

It’s Not What You Say But How You Say It

¡ You may use your voice and sounds: moans, groans, sighs; whispering and screaming. You can sound commanding and harsh, submissive and uncertain, and everywhere in between.
· Tell the PSO something you’re going to do and something you want her to do to you right now.
¡ Give her an ego boost. Talk about her body and tell her about your favorite part of her body.
¡ Slow down and tell her things in more detail than you normally would.

Watch her breathing
· If she’s very aroused her breathing will be that much heavier.

Be Genuine
¡ Whatever role you are playing, be it yourself or a specific persona, it needs to include you.
¡ Including yourself in the role you are playing makes it more authentic and real and in turn more enjoyable.

Find your dirty voice
¡ When talking dirty you will need to find your own way of doing so. It can be in a deep voice or soft whispers.
¡ If you are still unsure about talking dirty you can even create a different persona in which you are comfortable.
· Your tone of voice will impact sex talk, because you will have to convey more emotion through the phone since body movement can’t.

Expand your vocabulary
¡ In a lot of cases your partner might ask you to use “filthy” words or use slang. Try your best to avoid using clinical terms such as penis or vagina.
¡ If you are at a loss, raunchy books or even watching porn can be a useful source.

Practice
¡ Practice talking dirty when you are alone.
¡ You can even try masturbating while fantasizing. It might give you a more creative incentive.

Don’t be afraid to get a little aggressive
¡ Be the boss and tell her exactly what you want her to do.
¡ You can take turns giving orders.
¡ After you’ve been the boss for a while, if it suits you, try being a bit more “submissive” and do whatever she wants.

The Soft-core Dirty Talk
The soft-core version is a great way to start with dirty talk. Stick with the words you already know. These work well and you can gradually add new naughty words and phrases here and there during sex. No one said dirty talk has to always be vulgar.

Examples:
– “I want you so bad.”
– “Your wish is my command.”
– “I love the things you do with your tongue.”
– “I love what you’re doing with your lips”
– “I love it when you touch me there”
– “I love kissing your neck”
– “Baby, don’t stop! Oh my god, I love it when you do that!”
– “I can’t believe what you’re doing! Please don’t stop!”

The Hard-core Dirty Talk
Swear words and slang words.
Examples:
– “I want you to rub your pussy all over my face”
– “I want to spread my juices all over your tits”
– “Tell me how you play with yourself”
– “Lie back and shut your mouth. I’m going to make you cum until you can’t breathe!”
– “Touch yourself and let me watch you”
– “Shut up! Ill fuck you whenever I want, naughty little whore!”
– “I’m your slave for the night. Tell me what you want.”
– “Do you like my big cock? Tell me what you see. Describe it to me.”
– “Don’t you dare cum until I say you can!”
– “Get on your hands and knees, sweetheart…and wait like a good girl.”
– “Spread your legs wide for me, sweet darling. Your body is mine tonight.”
– “You little slut, I’m going to fuck you till you can’t walk! Ready?”
– “I could spend hours between your legs; teasing…lapping; sipping; tasting you.”
– “Come over here, bad girl, and lick my balls before I explode in your face.”

Hope this helps…Have fun…

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Phone Actress Confessions

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Dirty details about the wildest scenarios clients “fantasized” about.

“I think phone sex helps people to live out their fantasies where they can’t in real life.” – Alena G.

These are some confessions we have gathered which depict some of the strange requests PSOs have experienced. Enjoy:

• Buying Condoms

“Probably by far the weirdest one was an old guy (in his 60s or 70s) who wanted me to pretend to be a cashier who sold him condoms. For literally hours, he would pretend he was buying condoms. I would say the same lines over and over again ‘getting lucky tonight?’ ‘Your total is $3.75’ ‘would you like a receipt?’ and ‘good luck!’ Each successive time, he would change his penis size. So crazy – I wish I was making this stuff up.”
–  Faith S.

• The Ghost in The Diaper

“I had a guy who wanted to pretend to be a ghost that lived inside my diaper, and I was supposed to talk to him as if he was my diaper. ‘O diaper, you’re so soft on my bottom…oh!’ I think I’m going to tinkle soon, diaper… I’m going to make you all warm and wet…I wasn’t sure how to feel about this one but it sure was fun and made me smile when it was over and done…on to the next.”
– Rose M.

• The Bad Girl

“He wanted me to describe myself as a ‘bad girl’ and tell him about all my piercings and tattoos and why I got them. Of course, I didn’t have any but pretending is the name of the game. He wanted to paint my nails black and asked me why I was such a bad girl and why I needed a bare bottom spanking. He wanted me to get on his lap and bite down on my lip until it was sore – then described how he put his fingers in my mouth to see how wet it was. This wasn’t like a normal Dom/sub interaction, but I felt he was in need of taking some form of control. I enjoyed it more than I thought I would.”
– Molly M.

• Animal Costumes

“Wanted me to pretend I was dressed up in one of those plush animal costumes. He wanted us to be two squirrels fighting over his nuts. Although this did not make sense to me, this was the first time hearing such a fetish. I went along with it and proceeded to make rodent sounds to the best of my ability. It turned out to be crazy fun and I really got into it!”
– Hannah S.

• The Voyeur

“He wanted me to open all my windows and turn on all the lights and pleasure myself in the nude while he watched with binoculars from across the street. He asked if I lived in an area surrounded by other houses or buildings and I said yes. I told him I live in an apartment building in a congested city where you can’t look out your own window without a view of someone’s kitchen or living room. I can’t say this is the strangest thing anyone has ever requested – but I did it, because I love my job…and love being a dirty, nasty girl.”
– Gabrielle A.

• Just Want to Talk

“I’ve had a caller who wanted me to cheer him up before. He didn’t want sex, he just wanted someone to talk to. He had just lost his job, and his daughter was reassigned custody to her mother because he had to move cities for a new job. He was so nice, and I really felt for him. I ended up not charging him.”
– Jennifer L.

As you can see Fetishes, and the wide variety of people who call, are widespread – and are not abnormal in ANY way.

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Sex museums around the world: Feeling horny already?

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Curious about sex? How about a global tour of the best sex museums in the world? Want to spice up your love life or just have a sexy excursion with a certain female in your life? These are some of the greatest sex and erotic art museums in the world and they are all open to the public. So delve deep into your innermost sexuality and encounter the erotic experience of a lifetime.

Here are the top six on our list:

1. Venustempel – Amsterdam, Netherlands

The Venustempel, otherwise known as the Temple of Venus, is the world’s first and oldest sex museum. It is located at the center of Amsterdam and observes many aspects of sensual love through the ages. This museum displays an extensive collection of erotic pictures, paintings, recordings and more. Venustempel embodies the highly sexualized nature of the city, showcasing 4,000 year-old artifacts in its “Sex Through the Ages” exhibit, testing modern views and accusations that today’s society is too “loose.” A great choice if you so happen to be traveling through this fine European city.

(Amsterdam is known for it’s world famous museums but I’m sure you will enjoy this one the most.)

2. Museum of Sex – New York City, New York

Hosting 15 exhibits, 5 virtual installations and more than 15,000 erotic artifacts New York’s Museum of Sex proves to be a go-to place if you are into that sort of thing. But of course you are J. Unlike the more touristy, specialty sex museums this New York City hotspot is run by a board of advisers whose mission is sex education. This museum is dedicated to the history, evolution and cultural significance of human sexuality focusing on a variety of sexual preferences and subcultures, including lesbian and gay history and erotica, BDSM, pornography , and sex work. So come on by the Museum of Sex if you’re not so inclined to leave the country just yet.

(But there’s more…)

3. Erotic Heritage Museum – Las Vegas, Nevada

If you thought New York sounded exciting. You’ll be overjoyed to hear there is a world famous museum in our very own Sin City. That’s right; Las Vegas is home to the Erotic Heritage Museum. This museum has nine galleries featuring pictures, films and performance art. This museum is dedicated to sex appreciation of all kinds. And if you thought that was overly stimulating you will be delightfully surprised to experience any S&M fan’s dream come true, the House of Gord exhibit, showcasing the allure of ultra bondage. Something that really caught my attention, though, was the “Toilet Humor” exhibit. Feel free to stop by the bathroom for a good laugh at the countless dirty jokes graffitied on the walls. But don’t be afraid to make your own contribution. And last, but not least, this one really takes the cake on interactivity offering workshops, lectures, and film clubs, even live performance, erotic poetry, dance and music. The museum’s philosophy leaves you with the idea that many of us will agree upon stating that sexual pleasure and fun are natural aspects of the human experience and that such pleasure must be made available to all.

(Moving along…)

4. Musee de L’Erotisme – Paris, France

This museum is quite unique in itself. The Musee de L’Erotisme is devoted to the art of making love and the preservation of artifacts throughout the ages. Featured along its seven floors are four permanent exhibits and an array of other interesting displays. Some of these include, but are not limited to; the Contemporary Art Exhibit, the Brothel Exhibit, and the Sacred Art Exhibit, displaying amulets, masks and spiritual objects used in an assortment of sexual celebrations. The collection ranges from the ancient religious art of India, Japan and Africa right up to contemporary art with a strictly erotic focus. Simply put, this museum will culturally engage the most curious of minds.

(Traveling through? This is the place to be.)

5. Sex Machines Museum – Prague, Czech Republic

Sex Machines Museum? Even the name sounds intriguing. Doesn’t it? We’ll this museum is exactly what it says it is. Imagine: More than 200 sex appliances scattered throughout three floors showcasing an abundance of extraordinary and unusual ways people pleasure themselves. The museum even features it’s very own cinema displaying age-old erotic films, one in particular, “Ladies’ Cabinet” being one of the very first scenes in history to capture a threesome. Throughout the rest of the museum you will find collections including body harnesses, instruments of sexual stimulation of all types, and chairs designed for “absolute domination.” These are among the many exciting displays you will witness while perusing the museum’s grounds. You won’t want to miss this!

(So strap your self in and enjoy this kinky experience)

6. Erotic Art Museum – Hamburg, Germany

And last but not least, the great sex museum of Hamburg Germany. Open 365 days a year, this museum displays the world’s largest publicly accessible collection of sexualized art. With more than 1,000 works of art illustrating that anything is possible on paper and canvas, including sex, your mind is in for a pleasant bender. Although Hamburg is famous for its erotic atmosphere, this museum takes a more intellectual look at sex, featuring an international collection of erotic artifacts from throughout history. Next to bars, strip shows, gambling houses, and sex shops, the unusual museum has found its place in an old hat factory. Of course the main subject is eroticism, but not from a pornographic, but from an artistic point of view. If you’re tired of hitting all the same old strip clubs and watching porn from home come on by and educate your self on the subject of erotic love.

(You will never forget this!)

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5 Tips For Mind-Blowing Phone Sex

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1. Have everything ready. Feel free to have whatever “implements” or “toys” you want ready, and let your mind wander ahead of time as to what kind of scenario you are into (be visual in your descriptions). If you can both tap into the fantasy, you will both get the most out of the situation.

2. It’s ok to think with your dick. Make sure you are in the mood. Maybe watch a little pornography to get things going. Also, letting what you’re feeling come out through breathing or moans letting her know what she is doing works. Make it “real” and let her know how you are responding to her being erotic just for you.

3. Don’t be shy and tell them anything you want – be creative. Be as naughty as you want. Nothing is taboo. These girls want to hear it all and they will not judge you. That is what they are here for.

4. This is YOUR experience – you are in control, and she is here COMPLETELY for YOU! Take charge and have her show you how much she wants it, embrace how horny you are getting her too!

5. And most importantly, have fun!

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Phone Sex News – March 28, 2013

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Hello there phone sexers! It’s been a while since we’ve updated you on the happenings in the phone sex and adult world. Well, we’re back, and without further ado, here’s the latest:

For all the folks in Tempe, AZ, you’re in for a treat. Stray Cat Theater will be presenting the cult hit Chicks With Dicks from April 19 through May 11. We’ve heard tremendous reviews about this play and recommend it to anyone with a crass sense of humor and who likes their women a little… extra-oridnary.

Looks like Rob Kardashian’s been hanging with paid escorts these days. Rob, play it safe (and have fun at the same time) with some phone sex man, seriously.

And for all the Facebookers, beware of a new virus out there that’s distributing child pornography. Posts begin with “Watch if you’re curious…”. Be on the lookout people, don’t say we didn’t warn ya!

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How do men and women explore their sexual urges?

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Everyone knows that men are more likely to watch and enjoy pornography than women. In fact, it is hard to find a man in the prime of life who doesn’t look at porn at least a few times a month. But did you know the number of women logging on to internet porn sites is higher than ever? Some studies suggest that 60% of women look at internet porn!

Still, the numbers are far higher for men. Single males watch about an hour of porn a week to satisfy their sexual urges; men in relationships watch about half of that. Not included in these numbers are all the men who call up phone sex services for a little fun. The operators can give live stimulation for your imagination.

One thing that draws many people to porn is that they can enjoy whatever type of sex they enjoy without embarrassment or shame. For lots of people, sexual inhibition has to do with being uncomfortable with what you enjoy when in the presence of another person. Many people assume women have more sexual inhibitions than men and this may be a reason for the rising number of women looking at porn.

Being inhibited can limit your ability to have happy, healthy sex with another person. Both men and women suffer inhibitions. Society often tells us that liking sex is dirty or shameful, a false notion that can inhibit the expression of sexuality. Thinking what we are doing is bad in some way can make us feel uncomfortable, shy and even ashamed while doing it. It makes sense that these feelings would get in the way of feeling confident.

Another common sexual inhibition for both genders is the idea of doing sex “wrong”. For instance, one in three people feel embarrassed that they may make too much noise during sex. This inhibits them from fully expressing themselves during sex. Having negative body image that makes you worry about appearing unattractive during sex can also prohibit you from letting go and really enjoying yourself.

So the question is, of course, how to overcome these inhibitions. Getting rid of negative feelings about sex in general is key to letting go of inhibition and enjoying a full sex life. Perhaps the best way to do so is to live an active fantasy life. In your imagination, you can envision yourself as uninhibited. And if you can imagine it, you can do it. Phone sex and pornography can both lend to this healthy imagining of yourself more sexually confident.

Turning to a phone sex operator to practice being confident with your sexuality is a great way to overcome the inhibitions that are making you too timid to enjoy the things you like.

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Why Is Sexting The New Phone Sex phenomena?

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Recent research reports that the average man has sexual thoughts about 400 or more times per day. Although, on the average, men think of sex more often than women, a typical female also has multiple sexual thoughts each day.
Studies also show that smart phones and texting have revolutionized how people communicate. Therefore, it’s no surprise that the quick, easy and private communication method of texting combined with men and women’s sexual thoughts and desires to create the popular trend known as sexting.

What is it?

Sexual texting is using a smart phone or other digital device like a tablet to share sexually explicit thoughts, ideas, photographs or videos in a completely private manner.

Is it a safe way to enjoy phone sex?

Sexually charged, short, text messages or sexual images can be easily, discretely and safely exchanged between consenting adults without worry. By using your smart phone, no one will overhear your sexual exchanges nor will anyone be involved in the processing of photos or videos.

What are the most common advantages to sending sext messages?

There are many sexting advantages besides having a deeper sense of privacy and confidentiality. You can send sexy texts or images from anywhere you are–and receive them anywhere you are–providing you have access to your smart phone.
You can also reread or review text or images that have been sent to you, or review text or images you have sent by saving them on your phone.
Uploading or downloading photos or videos on the internet may be traced while sending photos or videos via texting is far more secure.
Sharing sexy phone texts is a safe way to enjoy sexual excitement and release without worries about pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases.

Is sending sexual texts considered cheating?

Psychologists agree that sexual fantasies are completely normal, and many people experience them frequently. Sexual fantasies can enhance your relationship with your sex partner and add a new layer of excitement even to a long-term relationship that may appear to have gone stale.
Sending sexual text messages or photos is a form of safe sex where there’s no physical contact, so for many people, it is not considered cheating but just a form of healthy fantasy and sexual titillation.

Can I sext someone from work or school?

Sharing sext messages is possible anywhere you can make a phone call. No one can hear or see what you’re doing, so you can sext anytime you have some spare time and want to partake in some sexual fun. Go ahead, sext on your lunch hour or as a break from studying in the university library. If you have someone who enjoys sharing sexual fantasies or photos with you, sending sexually themed text messages is a great way to add spice and sexual excitement to your relationship.

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How to Become a Phone Sex Operator (PSO)

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In cash strapped times like these, people are increasingly looking for creative and unconventional means to generate income. Job openings are scarce and companies have learned to do more with less as a result of the recession. The economy has been permanently restructured. There is hope, however. For the out-of-work woman with an entrepreneurial spirit, phone sex operating should be an appealing career choice.

Getting Started

PSO positions can be found on job boards such as SexyJobs.com or by directly contacting dispatch companies like LipService.net, ChatRecruit.com, or IasXXX.com. Additionally, there are PSO communities, PhoneSex.yuku.com being one example, that can assist a PSO or an aspiring PSO find work. Those who are just starting are advised to seek employment with a dispatch company to gain experience rather than venture out independently. It’s a guaranteed paycheck and can provide invaluable knowledge of the industry and proper practices.

Excelling as a PSO

On average, PSOs make anywhere from $1K to $3K monthly, depending on employment status (dispatch companies might fix the wage regardless of success/conversion rate). As with any job, success is not guaranteed. It requires hard work and a capacity to self-evaluate in order to improve. There are several important qualifications and characteristics all effective PSOs possess:

Research

The best PSOs are well versed in sexual topics (fetishes, terminology). Callers are often fetishized and want their Phone Sex Operators to be knowledgeable of all things sexual. The give-and-take of phone sex is much more energetic if the PSO is familiar with callers’ exotic and various desires. Pornography is a great resource for this type of research. Time spent with adult content means more comfort with discussing topics of a sexual nature. The callers are likely watching porn and what they see often becomes their fantasy. They want the girl in the movie who is open to doing anything.

Conversation Skills

Practicing conversational skills is a must. The best phone sex operators listen intently and respond enthusiastically with good follow-up questions. Effective call and response is essential to any phone sex experience.

Respect

The number one quality you need is respect. Your clients have many valid reasons for seeking your services. Whether you work for a paid service or a free phone sex service, respect for your client enhances your client’s phone sex experience.

Creativity and Imagination

There’s a level of fantasy in phone sex. Each caller’s idea of the ideal fantasy is unique. Acting and being able to take clues from a caller enhances the sexual experience – the better the fantasy, the better the conversation. Stoke the imagination and create a sense of mystery for your caller.

 

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Phone Sex News – November 14, 2012

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Didn’t think another wrinkle in the Petraeus-Broadwell-Allen-Kelley scandal (enough hyphens?) would involve phone sex? Think again. Turns out the emails between Gen. Allen and Jill Kelley weren’t harmless. They were salacious, sexual and resembled phone sex more than anything. We’re delighted by this news.

Measure B, requiring actors starring in adult films produced in Los Angeles County to wear condoms, passed 56%-44% on November 6th. There are reasonable arguments to be made in favor of and in opposition to the measure. Those in favor cite the spread of STDs as a public health concern and thus within the purview of regulation. Opponents argue the measure is an encroachment on First Amendment rights and reflects a broader trend of the erosion of civil liberties. We fall somewhere in the middle of this debate, not out of lack of principle but as a general acknowledgment that the issue is complicated. Having said that, no one likes condoms in their porn. With that in mind, we oppose the measure. Hang loose and free!

And a fire ignited at a spa raided for a prostitution ring. We know prostitution can be hot, but didn’t know it could get this hot…

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